Monday 31 January 2011

Salam suami isteri

Dosa gugur apabila suami,isteri bersalam.Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda,yang bermaksud:"Seseorang isteri yang bermuka muram di hadapan suaminya,maka ia dlm kemurkaan Allah hingga ia dapat membuat suasana yg riang gembira kpd suaminya & memohon kerelaannya."
Begitulah besarnya harga senyuman seorg isteri kpd suaminya kerana senyuman akan mencetuskan suasana kegembiraan yg sebenarnya dikehendaki suami ketika pulang dlm keletihan.
Muka yg masam bukan saja akan menimbulkan kemarahan suami,malahan menyebabkan Allah turut murka dan kemurkaan Allah itu berkekalan hingga isteri berjaya mengembalikan suasana gembira serta memohon keampunan drpd suami.
Sesungguhnya keredhaan Allah terletak pd keredhaan suami.Justeru, apabila suami pulang segeralah bukakan pintu,persilakan masuk dgn penuh hormat dan ciumlah tangan suami sebagai tanda hormat serta meminta maaf ,walaupun isteri merasakan tidak berbuat sebarang kesalahan pd hari itu.
Sebuah hadis ada menyebut bahawa apabila seorang suami bersalaman dengan isterinya,maka gugurlah segala dosa dari celah-celah jari mereka berdua.
Andai mempunyai anak-anak,ajarlah mereka itu utk selalu bersalaman dgn ayahnya kerana kelaziman akan memupuk rasa kasih dan hormat anak-anak kpd org tua.
Kebahagiaan rumahtangga terletak pd akhlak dan budi pekerti isteri. Biarpun seorang isteri itu tidak cantik tapi jika cukup sempurna layanannya terhadap suami dan berakhlak pula,tentu ia akan menjadi penghibur dlm rumahtangga.
Oleh itu,wahai isteri hendaklah berlumba-lumba utk menjadi seorang isteri yg solehah,yg bertakwa,berakhlak mulia dan taat kepada suami.
Jika seorang isteri mengharap cintanya berbalas ,maka banyakkan mencari keredhaan Allah melalui keredhaan suami.



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Tuesday 25 January 2011

Kesihatan

Sudah masuk minggu kedua antibody badan still berjuang tuk fight antigen dan pathogen yg myerang badan aku ni..start dgn perkampungan hidung melarat k kampung kerongkong..within 2 days depa dah conquer central otak ni...

Tak cukup kampung, seluruh negara djajahi termasuk la wife and anak2 Aku yg masih belum kebah spenuhnya...

Musim winter bermula kbiasaannya bulan nov dan berakhir feb mmg djangkakan system imunisation kt berhadapan dgn pelbagai masalah dan penyakit...body kt perlu masa dan tenaga ddlm proses adaptasi ini...jadik dgalakkan bnyak minum air kosong sekurang2nya 6-7gelas sehari...

Lebihkan mkanan yg mgandungi serat dan vit C yg tnggi bg membantu body kt menghadapi segala penyakit...kentang juga perlu tukpanaskan badan pd suhu yg ekstrim sejuk ini...
Sekian, masa tuk keleja!!


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Sunday 23 January 2011




Adam & Nuha @TJ Hughes




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Adam @Toy's R us




Nuha & Adam @York designer outlet




Nuha @Lakeside outlet

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Friday 21 January 2011

Sifat Lelaki

Asyik dgn facebook terbaca article ini dan mmg kena sekali sifat yg ada pada aku...hayati lah

Bukan mudah untuk membina hubungan yang terus bahagia. Kadang-kadang pertanyaan dan jawapan membawa padah kepada si pasangan. Jadi, hati-hatilah soal apa yang harus dan tidak harus diceritakan kepada pasangan anda. Ada beberapa petua yang perlu kita tahu:

Jangan buat lelaki patah semangat tentang pekerjaannya. Sebaliknya cubalah membantu.
Janganlah hendak diperbesarkan jika pendapatan anda melebihinya. Boleh menyinggung perasaan dia.
Jangan membandingkan dia dulu dengan sekarang.
Jangan benci ibunya.
Jika ilmu anda lebih darinya, janganlah cuba mengajarnya melainkan dia ingin belajar dari anda.
Jangan cerita tentang keburukan kawan baik lelaki itu. Kawan penting bagi lelaki.
Jangan cerita tentang ada lelaki lain menyukai anda atau ingin mengenali anda. Pantang sekali.
Kadang-kadang cerita tentang kawan lelaki anda membuat dia cemburu dan kurang senang. Oleh itu, kurang-kurangkanlah cerita sebegitu.
Perkataan cerai atau putus. Memang satu perkataan yang lelaki tidak boleh dengar. Eloklah anda hindarkan.
Jangan cerita tentang keburukan pasangan anda. Lelaki juga sensitif. .
Jangan sebut tentang bekas teman lelaki anda. Pantang datuk nenek dia.
Kata-kata yang diucapkan sembarangan dapat mewujudkan perselisihan. Kata-kata yang kejam dapat menghancurkan suatu kehidupan. Kata-kata yang diucapkan pada tempatnya dapat meredakan ketegangan. Kata-kata yang penuh cinta dapat menyembuhkan dan memberkati.


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Wednesday 5 January 2011

For immigrants

On 7 December 2010 the Government released its proposals for the reform of the student immigration system and launched its consultation on the reform. The overall aim of the reforms is to drastically reduce the numbers of migrants in the UK.

The impact of the proposals is potentially far-reaching and could affect current and prospective students, your dependants, the university and employers. It is therefore important that those who will be affected by the proposals voice their concerns. The Students’ Union will be responding to the proposals and would like to encourage you to provide your views on the following proposals to help us prepare our submission.

No visas for students to study if not at higher level
Students wishing to remain in the UK to extend their studies after having completed their initial course will have to show clear evidence of academic progression. This means you would only be allowed to apply for your visa if the course you were moving onto was at a higher level than the current course. Can you see this causing you any difficulties?
No visa extensions in the UK for new courses
The UK Borders Agency (UKBA) is also considering whether students should be required to leave the UK and re-apply for another course from overseas. This means if you complete a course in June, and then have an offer to start a Masters or PhD in September, you would have to return home to apply for a fresh visa. What is your view about this proposed change?
Post Study Work (PSW) Scheme to be closed
The UKBA is proposing to close down the PSW route. This is likely to take effect from April 2011. This means if you graduate after this date you will not be able to remain in the UK to work for 2 years. Will this affect you? Did you come to the UK hoping to stay on to work under this scheme? What will this mean for your career plans? How important was the existence of the PSW scheme to you coming to the UK to study?
Limit rights to work during term time
Currently all students on a degree course have the right to work up to a maximum of 20 hours per week for any employer. Under the new proposals, students will only be allowed to work on campus during the week in term time. You would be allowed to work off campus during weekends and vacations. We are not clear whether the Government intends to also limit the number of hours you could work. These changes will also apply to any current student who needs to extend their visa for their current course or any new course.

Are you are currently working on campus or off campus? Do you foresee any difficulties in working for your current external employer if you are only allowed to work for them on weekends and vacations?

Remove right of dependants to come to UK unless student is on course of 12 months or more
Currently, students doing any course of more than 6 months can be accompanied by their dependants. The Government proposes to only allow students on courses of more than 12 months to bring dependants. This means if you come to do a language course of 8 months before you start your degree you would not be able to bring your partner or children.

If this had applied to you would you have still come to the UK to study?

Remove right of dependants to work in the UK
Currently, all dependants of students here for more than 12 months have an unrestricted right to work in the UK. The Government proposes to remove this right. Dependants will only be allowed to work if they get permission under Tier 2 (which is being capped under other proposals from 1 April 2011) or Tier 1 (which for the most part is being abolished from April). This may affect current dependants if their visas are extended after these changes take effect. This means they would need to stop working if they are unable to get a Tier 2 visa.

Well, wait n c after April 2011!!


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